Humility
One of my favourite church memories from my youth is seeing Brother Victory, a tall deacon from our church, stooping to tie the shoelaces of one of the naughtiest little boys in our Sunday School. The image was so heart-warming and it has stuck with me as a metaphor, for the humility with which I want to live my life. There are four main times when we most need to adopt humility as a mindset. The first is when we are wrong about someone or something. Self-preservation can cause pride if it goes too far but holding one's hands up when wrong, can build relationships as well as our own character. Secondly, and probably more difficult than the former point, is when we are right about something or someone. The temptation here is to gloat inwardly and position oneself as the fount of all wisdom, but not only is that not very endearing, it is good to remember that being right doesn't mean that we are all the way right. The passage of time can uncover n...